When a hospital, HMO or doctors group does not follow established patient safety rules, the effects can be devastating for the patient. Many times, without warning, a loved one's life is now tragically altered. A previously healthy person needs around the clock care for his basic needs, cannot work, sometimes cannot even communicate with his family.
If you're faced with medical malpractice, what do you do?
Every family is different, of course. And in working with families for over 20 years in medical malpractice cases, we've seen many different responses - from divorce because the strain of caring for an adult child harmed by medical malpractice, to a father and kids pulling together and becoming closer after the death of a young wife and mom.
There are several things we discuss in great detail with the people we help.
First - it's not your fault. The guilt or feeling that you could have done something different is natural, and it's totally, completely wrong. You have no control over the actions of physicians, nurses, technicians, specialists or (as we see in medical malpractice cases over and over) the lack of systems the hospital, HMO or doctor's office has in place to prevent medical malpractice.
We all want to say we would have done something different - gone to a different hospital, chosen a different specialist, intervened with a busy doctor, etc. It's natural to think that after a serious injury happens to someone we love.
Second - it's not your family members fault. Look, its natural to blame others - to say "I told her not to take him to that hospital." Or I told him to take better care of himself, so he wouldn't need to go into the hospital in the first place.
Third - your whole family is exhausted. The physical strain of caring for someone who is disabled, a child, husband, wife or parent, is enormous. The physical and emotional stress of caring for another person's medical needs - medications, turning her at night to protect her skin, lifting him into and out of the car or from the bed to the wheelchair, and coordinating care is exhausting.
Finally (and few people will tell you this) the financial toll and the worry about money is profound. The medical costs and technolgy required just to keep your loved one comfortable are increasing every year. But Medicaid and other insurance (if you're eligible) are paying for less and less every year.
And you want the best for your loved one. And your family. And yourself. You need financial resources to do that.
Its a hard thing to come to terms with - the fact that a medical system you put your trust in caused this, that you didn't ask for this or do anything to bring this on yourself or your family. But here you are.
What is your next step?
The families we work with in medical malpractice cases in DC, Maryland and Virginia get a lot more than basic legal advice. Call us to talk confidentially about scheduling a strategy session to come up with a plan to help you and your family, and what we've done for other families harmed by medical malpractice in the DC area. If you're not ready to talk yet, order a guide or report we publish. We'll send it to you so you can learn more and make the best decisions for your family.
But don't wait. Because of how we work (we're different than other medical malpractice lawyers) we only accept a few cases at a time.